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Allie has Blog Fever…

For those of you who don’t know, I’m Allie, a good friend of Chris, Tanya & Linus. When the Life on Fire podcast first began, I was a frequent guest commentator on the show. As a full-time college student, I had my own brief segment entitled "Catholic Life on Campus." I recently dug up each of my CLoC blurbs from 2006 and posted them here as archives on the site. Feel free to take a look.
CLoC #1  ~  CLoC #2  ~  CLoC #3  ~  CLoC #4

Upon creating this version of the LOF website, Chris & Tanya graciously gave me a username and the ability to post blogs and content. I haven’t taken advantage of this opportunity in the past for whatever reason. But now I am itching to write and share my opinions and stories. The question is what exactly should I blog about? I am no longer living in a dorm so CLoC doesn’t really work at this point. A lot has changed in my life these past four years, some of which I may write about here. I can share the perspective of a single and/or dating Catholic woman, while Chris & Tanya talk about different faith & life experiences as a married couple and parents.

If there’s anything in particular you want me to address, feel free to comment below. Otherwise, I will blog on whatever happens to inspire me. I just ask you to pray that whatever I write, that I remain true to myself and true to the Lord and His teachings. Talk to you later & God Bless!

CLoC #4: The Calm and the Storm

Hey everyone!

Allie here with your Catholic Life on Campus. For those of you who read my segment last week, I survived Spring Fling Weekend! At first, I thought I was going to lose it. First, I was stranded at the cathedral in Hartford where we had our concert because my ride left without me. Luckily, a friend saw me and gave me a lift back to school. I finally get back to my apartment and my suitemates & their friends are already wasted, and it’s hard to keep them quiet once that happens. I was trying to figure out what to do & where to go, but my friends that party were off partying & my friends that don’t were smart enough to get off campus for the weekend. However, I found refuge with my friend Matt at his apartment that night and from there on the weekend was more bearable. We had soda & nachos while watching Dr. Strangelove, which is a hilarious politics/war movie for those who haven’t seen it. After that, we were just sitting on his bed and talking about anything & everything until 3:30 in the morning. For a while there, we were having an in depth discussion about our faiths – he is Jewish, but is also adopting the Buddhist lifestyle and sort of blending the two. It was neat to see what common factors we agreed on & what completely contrasted. Saturday night some buds & I hung out for a bit, then Matt & I set off again looking for chai since we both hate coffee. It was after 2am so I suggested the diner which is open 24 hours. But it was absolutely packed so we set off looking for somewhere else open that late, but to no avail. It was good to get off campus for a bit though. When we got back after 3am, all that remained of Spring Fling were tons of cups & beer cans strewn across the campus lawn. It was a truly creepy sight. I’m just glad I didn’t let myself do anything stupid like a lot of students did. Next year, I may go home that weekend. Yes, I will be of legal drinking age next Spring Fling, but if I’m going to drink, it’s only a little bit and with friends I trust, not at crazy raging parties where you don’t know 95% of the people there. Having alcohol for the soul purpose of getting drunk is ridiculous.

So I’m definitely sick of final exams. I’ve already had 5 this week (2 of which were this morning), I have one more that I’m running to after finishing this blurb, & my last one 8am Tuesday morning. Not to mention, I have two papers to finish for my education class & a composition to write for music theory. Then there’s all the rehearsals for Europe. The rain today isn’t making things easier, especially since the small river that cuts through campus is flooding again. I’m just glad the madness is ALMOST over. It’s kind of hard to believe that my career as a college undergrad is already halfway through. What’s even more unbelievable is the fact that next Monday I’m setting off for 12 days overseas! WOW.

Anyways, I guess that’s it for this week cuz I’m brain-fried from all this work. Today was a hectic day…and it’s not over yet. If you wanna see how hectic, check out my 12 of 12…yes, I’m doing it too! I’ll have Chris put a link of my pictures up on the LOF site or somehting once I collaborate my photos, which won’t be until late tonight or tomorrow. Then you can see why I’m so grumpy that my feet won’t stay dry. Hopefully, I will be able to broadcast live with Chris & Tanya next week before heading off to Europe if they don’t mind recording a late evening show. We’ll see what happens. God Bless!

Hi Chris, Tanya & LOF Listeners!

This is Allie with your weekly update of my “Catholic Life on Campus.” Good news this week is that my computer is now all better…YAY! Apparently, some “adware” snuck onto my system and was causing a lot of problems. So here’s some quick advice: EVERYONE SHOULD HAVE THE FOLLOWING THREE PROGRAMS TO PROTECT THEIR COMPUTER!

1) A good anti-virus program, such as AVG
2) Spybot – Search & Destroy, which eliminates any “bot” programs
3) Ad-Aware, which gets rid of any “adware.”

I had the first two already, but once I installed Ad-Aware, I was able to isolate the problem and now my compy is happily working again. You can find all three of these programs for free on the Web.

Anyways, onto the big topic this week. This weekend will be my first encounter with “Spring Fling,” the last chance to “party hearty” before finals. The festivities started last night since some of the students don’t have Friday classes. I, unfortunately, had THREE classes this morning, which is actually a light day for me. This was further irritated when a complete stranger “drunk dialed” me at 5:30 this morning. Anyways, some good friends and I made nachos & ice cream sundaes last night so we were just talking, laughing and having a good time. It’s nice that we don’t need booze or drugs to have fun – we’re goofy enough with chocolate in our systems! But when I went back to my apartment, I found my suitemate and a group of strangers passing a bong around my living room. So I retreated into my bedroom and locked the door for the rest of the night. I’m starting to think that I’ve been too tolerant of their smoking and drug use this year. I’ve actually gotten used to the smell of pot and that disappoints me now. I wasn’t sticking up for myself just to avoid confrontation with these people I had to live with for the rest of the school year. Thank God I’m only here for one more week! Right now though, I’m just trying to figure out now how I’m supposed to survive Spring Fling. Some of my friends are smart and are going home for the weekend. If things get too crazy around here, I may do the same, as embarassing as that may sound to others. If I do stay on campus, hopefully I will find some friends level-headed enough so we can just relax and not be completely stupid. I really don’t want to spend the whole weekend holding someone’s hair back as they puke their guts out. I’ve mentioned before how being on this campus with peers who like to party can be a great challenge to my faith & the decisions I make in general. Spring Fling Weekend, however, is going to push those limits even futher. Luckily, my fellow music students and I have a major concert tonight and Sunday afternoon, which minimalizes most of their drinking to just tonight after the performance. Hopefully, no one is stupid about it because performing hung over or with a foggy head usually doesn’t go very well. Whatever happens this weekend is sure to be interesting. So please pray for me and the other students, that they will use good judgement the next few days in terms of partying, substance abuse and overall reckless behavior.

So I hope this was much easier for Chris & Tanya to read. I even enlarged the font to reduce your agonizing eyestrain! God Bless everyone and Be safe!!

Hi Chris, Tanya & Life on Fire Listeners!

This is Allie again, writing to you about my “Catholic Life on Campus.” I realize my last post was a bit lengthy so I’ll try to keep this one from rambling (the key word being “TRY”).

I’m in the University library once again since my computer now hates me and is deciding not to work. Hopefully, our IT department can help me because I have a bunch of papers to write & research to do in the next few weeks. I guess that means I’ll be here a lot. Anyways, I just came from the student union, where I was “table-ing” with two other SFL members about suicide awareness and prevention. This was the last day of our “Respect Life Week” and I have to say that it went okay. Unfortunately, we didn’t do nearly as much as we planned since the end of the semester caught up to us. Our club president decided not to table about abortion, so we just had the National Pro-Life T-shirt Day suffice instead. That, by the way, went very well and I noticed many people not in the club who apparently ordered shirts on their own! YAY for more pro-life college students! She pointed out that every time we try to defend the pre-born, students come up to us not to learn more about the evils of abortion, but rather to fight with us and justify why abortion is okay. I personally was disappointed in her decision, but hopefully we can come up with better ways to approach the topic and make more of a positive impact next year. I found a lot of new facts today for the suicide table especially pertaining to college students. Suicide happens to be the second leading cause of death among college students, which is why it is so important to raise awareness about it on campuses. We also had a lot of facts and statistics on display for everyone to see how tragic this issue really is. One such fact is that more Caucasians commit suicide than African-Americans, Asians or Hispanics in the United States. One student asked us why this was so, but we didn’t know, so that gives us something else interesting to look into. As the Events Chair for next year, I’m hoping to plan “Education Days” for the members since we can’t effectively give others the facts if we don’t know them ourselves.

And yes, you heard me right. I was elected as next year’s Students for Life Events Chair! I also somehow won the Presidential election for the Newman Club! I’m truly excited and flattered to hold these positions and hopefully can use them to create some new collaboration between the two clubs. Newman hasn’t been particularly pro-life this year, but I’m hoping to change that. Since Newman is in much better standing than SFL right now, they really could stand to lend a hand to promote the importance of these issues. Please keep me and these organizations in your prayers because I know that I’ll need His guidance to effectively assist the clubs, their members and what we stand for.

And now, onto a question I received but was unable to answer last week. It comes from Scott, host of “The Mission: Artist Podcast” at www.missionartist.com. He writes,

“I would be interested to know if the hurdles to spreading the gospel on campuses come from lack of administration support or lack of student interest.”

That’s a very good question, Scott, one that I hope I can answer. I think it greatly depends on the individual campus. My campus is extremely lucky in this respect. We have had our Catholic campus ministry for at least four years now, maybe longer. The university also has a Protestant & Jewish campus ministry, as well as many other student run faith organizations. They range from a Muslim group, to United Unitarian, and some of my peers have just started a group for Wiccans. Students here are allowed to start clubs for pretty much anything if they have enough people, have a clear mission statement and are approved by student government. We actually had a different campus minister the fall of my freshman year, an amazing Catholic man. However, he left that spring to start up Catholic ministries at two community colleges that had no faith organizations whatsoever. We all miss him dearly, but are glad that other college students have the opportunity to experience their Catholic faith as we are. We have been fighting for quite a while to have some kind of campus chapel that could be shared between the faith organizations so we can actually have a place to worship besides our tiny office. But that may have to wait a few more years unfortunately since there are other “more urgent” building projects right now. Our administration is tolerant and appreciative of our ministry & organization, but I feel they could do more for us sometimes. Now, students, on the other hand, are a very different story. There’s the very active Catholics, like me, who attend mass regularly and are core members of the Newman Club and its activities. There are others who are just happy to have the opportunity to attend worship on campus, especially the younger students who don’t have cars. Then there’s the many who barely practice but swarmed into the office to receive their ashes for Ash Wednesday, both students AND faculty. Many do approve of the Newman Club & campus ministry, whether our efforts are seen as vital or just semi-appreciated. Some students, however, do not hold the same respect. For example, many homosexual students pick fights with us, saying that Catholics hate them and don’t have the right to prevent them for marrying. Some of my own friends challenge or chastise me for my beliefs, because they are Wiccan, atheist or whatnot. But I think this is true everywhere you go, and for me personally, it prepares me for these same fights in the real world outside of campus grounds. Keep in mind that most of these problems come from individual students and not organizations as a whole. Usually, it’s only those who like to start trouble that give us any grief.

I hope I at least semi-enlightened you, Scott. Sorry I couldn’t be of more help. I do have one piece of advice though – if you are a college student and do not have a faith organization on your campus, don’t be afraid to start your own. Students need to speak up and tell the school what they need, so it might as well be you. Contact your student government or the head of student activities to see what steps you need to take. If anyone else has any questions or comments for me, you can email me or post a comment. I’d really like your ideas of what else to address on the show. Prayers to my fellow college students – we’re almost done! God Bless everyone!

CLoC: Catholic Life on Campus

Hey Chris, Tanya & LOF listeners,

This is Allie, reporting to you about Catholic Life on Campus. I am currently in the library, punching out this segment before my choir rehearsal so hopefully I’ll get to say everything I want to before I have to run back to my busy schedule.

This week, I thought it might be a good idea for me to start off telling you a little bit more about me. So here goes: As you know, my name’s Allie and I’m a good friend of Chris & Tanya’s. I’m a 20 year old college sophomore studying music education at The Hartt School, which is part of the University of Hartford . I live in an on-campus apartment with three other girls who I had never met before… and let me just say I’m glad that I’ll only be residing there a few more weeks. My family is Catholic, but I am a “revert” to the faith. I went through a tough period in high school and basically lost hope that there even was a God. I even went so far as to call myself an atheist, although I don’t think I really knew what an atheist was. But at the end of high school, I began to realize that God had been there all along, helping me. If He hadn’t had been, I might not even be here today, and I certainly wouldn’t be contributing to a Catholic podcast! But hopefully I can go more into detail about my re-conversion story this summer.

What I think is ironic about me is that my Catholic faith has grown so much more now that I am at college. For many of my peers, they take this new sense of independence out of proportion and use it as a chance to practice sinful and many times illegal activities that they couldn’t quite get away with while living at home. However, I have used my freedom to get closer in my relationship with Christ. It figures that me, the former “atheist” is now the only practicing Catholic left in her household. I don’t make it to mass as often when I’m home and when I do, I go alone. My mom has expressed interest lately in coming back with me, but usually ends up being too busy or something. All I can do is keep praying and keep inviting her to come with me. Anyways, back to college here. So because no one else in my house even talks about religion and faith anymore, I felt like a closet Catholic. This past summer, I was even ashamed to tell my family that I bought a rosary or that I listened to a Catholic radio show on the Internet. But I didn’t have to worry about hiding it at school. I found other Catholic students through the Newman Club that I could talk to and pray with. I’ll admit that at first, the people I met were intimidating since a large percentage of my campus is Jewish (even if many of them are non-practicing). But I met my friend Allie (who I’ve dubbed my “spiritual twin”) during a community service day and from then on, I just kept bumping into more and more of my Catholic brothers and sisters. These people are my parish family, although I still have a close connection to my hometown parish. We make each other dinner and hang out on Friday nights instead of drinking our brain cells away. I’m not saying that we’ve never been tempted to go all out and party recklessly - but I see these cravings as challenges to help me grow in my faith. We all fall because human beings are prone to sinning and no one’s perfect, but that’s why we have confession. I’m sure many of the “wild” kids on campus won’t realize how reckless or stupid they’re being until they graduate, or are arrested or hurt. Unfortunately, some of them may never figure it out. So I’d like to ask everyone listening to pray for the college partiers - that they may discover life isn’t all about “sex, drugs and rock ‘n roll”. Not all students are like this though. True, there are quite a few, but they ruin the college student reputation for the rest of us who truly care about our academics and our futures.

Anyways, this week has been interesting. The workload is finally piling up with finals only a few weeks away. Hopefully, I can keep myself organized and focused for the rest of the semester, so as not to lose my sanity (or a decent GPA). Yesterday didn’t help much though. Apparently, 4/20 is a day that many people decide to smoke pot (since it was Law #420 that made marijuana illegal) so one of my apartment-mates had their buddies over and I couldn’t breathe very well, even with my bedroom door closed and the windows open. Also, my mom sent me a message during my night class that she was bringing my cat Sassy to the vet. She hadn’t been eating much when I went home for Easter but this week she got to the point where she wouldn’t even drink water. Once my class got out, I called my mom back to discover that Sassy’s kidneys were failing and that my mom had had no choice put to put her down. She lived a good life though - we found her as a stray when she was 2, and she was 14-1/2. She was definitely one of my best friends for the past 12 years though and I feel really bad that she had to pass away while I was gone at school. My mom stayed with her and I kind of got to say goodbye on Easter since I knew she was sick, but all the same, I really miss her and will mourn her loss for a while.

Well, I have to run to rehearsal now. This weekend, I’m looking forward to our final Newman Club Women’s Group of the semester. Also, I’m planning on watching the “God or the Girl” marathon on A&E tonight with Allie and seeing the finale Sunday night. Next week, I’ll give everyone a summary of Students for Life’s “Respect Life Week,” which we’ve been rigorously planning for the past few months. I’ll also share the results of the Newman Club e-board elections coming up this Sunday and will address a question Scott asked me on the LOF Forums. If you want to ask me something about my college experiences, send me an email. God Bless and I’ll have another report for you next week!